Thursday, July 13, 2006
The importance of success!!
I think that being successful gives man the biggest high in his life.There is something incomparable to success.Be it in any sphere-One's public life or the private life,success is one thing that is man's eternal quest in this fast evolving world of today.
I am a perfectionist and i love to savour the sweetness and hapiness that success brings with itself.I love that feeling..Simply LOVE IT!!!!Nobody is happier than I am when success kisses my feet.Its when everybody congratulates me and says goodie-goodie things about me that i feel that my efforts have borne fruit.The entire society comes and takes the credit and shares that happiness.
But,does it end there????No!!There are times when i am low..when things dont go in my favour, when i dont get what i want..when i have to compromise when i dont want to..and then does the society come to share the burden of my pathos??NO!!It is then that i suddenly become the worst person in the universe-incapable of doing things, managing things including myself.Haha!!Are they the same people who once came to me to share my credit and called me the best....I dont think so.Things change and so do people....
Its hypocritical!Really..and its pathetic.All of these fair weather relationships(how- so -ever deep or shallow they might be) make me sick.I wonder why people are equated with success-NOPE!!!!Sorry!Readymade success!!!!
Well, nobody quite sees or understands the amount of effort it takes, the dedication, commitment, patience and hope it takes to succeed.Nobody waits now-a-days.Everyone wants it instantly.But when were great things achieved instantly??Little failures are the stepping stones to success.I have had my own share of little failures that have been of immense value to me.Failures TEACH A LOT!!!!
The best thing about me is that i dont repeat my mistakes.I am a human being and so even i make mistakes.There are times, when fate is not by my side.Its a time of another failure.Its a time when people who are the closest to me-my mom, dad, friends....and then the society start criticizing me and hurting me more rather than consoling me and preparing me mentally for MY SUCCESS!
Its a time when i am alone- depressed, dejected, vulnerable, hurt and immensely lonely.I cry alone, i write a lot, i write a lot and tear the papers..I feel miserable and have no one to talk to.I become an introvert.I create this protective shell around me..Its my armour, my space..and no body can enter it and hurt me more....
Writing, thinking, introspecting and praying to God....when the entire world is against me..gives me Strength and the Courage to stand up and face my shortcomings.They help me realise where i am wrong and thus help me overcome my follies.I get immense peace when i write, think, introspect or pray.It is the one thing that i need more than anyother thing in life-more than fame or money-PEACE!!!!
When i have peace of mind, i stand up again..put up my armour,ready to face another battle of life with the hope that this time..I WILL WIN!!!!And because of my faith, optimism, courage and hope, i know that ONE DAY, I WILL!!!!
I am a perfectionist and i love to savour the sweetness and hapiness that success brings with itself.I love that feeling..Simply LOVE IT!!!!Nobody is happier than I am when success kisses my feet.Its when everybody congratulates me and says goodie-goodie things about me that i feel that my efforts have borne fruit.The entire society comes and takes the credit and shares that happiness.
But,does it end there????No!!There are times when i am low..when things dont go in my favour, when i dont get what i want..when i have to compromise when i dont want to..and then does the society come to share the burden of my pathos??NO!!It is then that i suddenly become the worst person in the universe-incapable of doing things, managing things including myself.Haha!!Are they the same people who once came to me to share my credit and called me the best....I dont think so.Things change and so do people....
Its hypocritical!Really..and its pathetic.All of these fair weather relationships(how- so -ever deep or shallow they might be) make me sick.I wonder why people are equated with success-NOPE!!!!Sorry!Readymade success!!!!
Well, nobody quite sees or understands the amount of effort it takes, the dedication, commitment, patience and hope it takes to succeed.Nobody waits now-a-days.Everyone wants it instantly.But when were great things achieved instantly??Little failures are the stepping stones to success.I have had my own share of little failures that have been of immense value to me.Failures TEACH A LOT!!!!
The best thing about me is that i dont repeat my mistakes.I am a human being and so even i make mistakes.There are times, when fate is not by my side.Its a time of another failure.Its a time when people who are the closest to me-my mom, dad, friends....and then the society start criticizing me and hurting me more rather than consoling me and preparing me mentally for MY SUCCESS!
Its a time when i am alone- depressed, dejected, vulnerable, hurt and immensely lonely.I cry alone, i write a lot, i write a lot and tear the papers..I feel miserable and have no one to talk to.I become an introvert.I create this protective shell around me..Its my armour, my space..and no body can enter it and hurt me more....
Writing, thinking, introspecting and praying to God....when the entire world is against me..gives me Strength and the Courage to stand up and face my shortcomings.They help me realise where i am wrong and thus help me overcome my follies.I get immense peace when i write, think, introspect or pray.It is the one thing that i need more than anyother thing in life-more than fame or money-PEACE!!!!
When i have peace of mind, i stand up again..put up my armour,ready to face another battle of life with the hope that this time..I WILL WIN!!!!And because of my faith, optimism, courage and hope, i know that ONE DAY, I WILL!!!!
Saturday, July 08, 2006
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