BIRD'S EYE VIEW OF THE INDIAN DREAM!!

I was having this grand impersonal discussion about the Indian Economic and Social Scenario with my parents yesterday which turned into a debate, a personal attack and then into a war minus the bullets and tanks....What was so heated about this discussion is something i still cannot exactly fathom.

The discussion started off as a result of my current train of thought.i was wondering about India as a growing economy and its quest for being a Superpower - THE GRAND INDIAN DREAM!! True that a lot of development has taken place in India from what it was in 1947.However, there is still an uneven distribution of development in the country which results in such disparity that some people do not even comprehend the conditions of "the Other"! Only a handful of people ( with due respect )-the politicians, industrialists, actors and cricketers, to name a few, get to see "Fortune" but in a land of over a billion people (1,129,866,154 (July 2007 est.)),it is a pity that money is concentrated only in a few pockets and the rest either live in extremely unhealthy, unthinkable conditions and circumstances or die of poverty and unemployment.The options available to them are extremely LIMITED, to say the least.

The IT sector may have boomed but the basic amenities are still to be provided to the people.The Agricultural sector has hardly flourished so has Research and Development, the Co-operate world is still limited to certain cosmopolitan cities.Tourism seems to be the prime focus nowadays but are we really taking care of our tourist attractions?Well, I happen to visit many places of public interest and several tourist attractions as well, but i do not quite see any difference despite the very successful " INCREDIBLE INDIA " campaign.Retail has progressed but what about basic housing, food and education facilities to one and all in a democracy?Can we equate development with a handful of malls, multiplexes, call centres or cooperate offices?Can we Equate the entire Indian Development with the development of a handful of individuals?I guess Not!

It is a pity that we spend so much of our currency on entertainment (that can range from movies to television to sports) when we do not even have the basics....Sure, Entertainment is necessary but there are far more important sectors and issues that need to be addressed before concentrating on entertainment.It is not fair that people go without food for months at end and with no education in a country that spends so much on entertainment..IPL, BIG BUDGET PLAGIARISED MOVIES ET ALL.Not REALLY FAIR AT ALL!!I'm not targeting singular events..but just see what we are doing, where we are heading!!

In India, innumerable people go without food and shelter..Lack of proper housing facilities, natural calamities and unhygienic conditions are a common phenomenon as are open drains which are a seat for common household pests, poor road connectivity, shortage of clean drinking water etc.There may be primary schools and health care centres but their numbers are so low and the quality so inferior that it cannot even be talked about.53% children are deprived of basic health care facilities.India has one of the highest infant mortality rates.The sheer lack of good hospitals and medical facilities speaks a lot.An article on Page 14 - Editorial Section in The Times Of India Ahmedabad Edition, Dated May 9, 2008 bears witness to this phenomenon :

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Child, Interrupted

Our record in health care for children is shameful

Health minister Anbumani Ramadoss is very concerned about what he calls the negative impact of movie scenes where heroes drink alcohol on young, impressionable minds. Perhaps he would like to turn his ministry’s attention to the abysmal state of public health in our country. Report after report damns the state of health-care facilities in India. The latest data on child health care paint a shameful picture. About 53 per cent of children aged below five — that’s a huge 67 million of them — make do without basic medical facilities. That includes access to prenatal care, skilled childbirth, immunisation and treatment for diarrhoea and pneumonia.
The report brought out by a reputable global NGO — Save the Children — compared 55 countries. And India, a country that has superpower aspirations and is proud of its robust growth, ties with Ghana and Eritrea for the 27th rank. According to the study, 66 per cent of the poorest children in India receive negligible or no health care. The figure stands at 31 per cent for those who are well off. The statistics only get more shocking: over a million children die annually before they turn a month old. That’s mostly because they have no access to primary health centres. Even when they do, what greets them is often a woefully ill-equipped shed. Poor maternal health — caused largely, but not exclusively, by malnourishment — only compounds the problem.
One disturbing fact the report throws up is the gender survival gap, which is widening. Between the ages of one and five, for every five boys who die, eight girls die. The report cites less money spent on girls’ health compared with boys as one of the major reasons for the survival gap. For instance, in Punjab the expenditure on medical care in the first two years after birth for boys is 2.3 times higher than that for girls. This is a telling comment on the deep-rooted gender bias in our society, which cuts across economic classes and does not spare even those who are well educated.
Many Indians might be adopting modern lifestyles but mindsets remain largely medieval. It is clear that education alone is not going to help us bridge the divide. Our education system is part of a prejudiced sociocultural matrix and often reflects it. Gender bias is further reinforced by skewed representations of women in popular culture, as seen in our movies, television soaps and advertisements. If we are to close the gap, the realm of popular culture might be a good place to start effecting change, not in drinking habits but in social attitudes.


In our country, the lack of good schools and the meagre salaries of teachers are a hindrance to quality education and mental development.There are places where people go without food for days.Schools do not reach these places and the quality of living keeps deteriorating.Those who do not agree can visit such places and then disagree.

In fact, Higher Education facilities are extremely limited.The lack of seats in any Higher Education Institute or University and the lack of choices prevent Research and Development.Mostly, people run for courses not for their choice but for the pay package because that alone gives you the " elite status ".Very few people actually get to do what they wish to do and when they go against the wind, the options for growth and respect do exist but they are limited.It is really sad..and i am not talking about those people who go abroad for higher education but those who stay in the country.

An Enormous Population and Corruption are the two great evils that mar our progress.Whatever development takes place is not enough because it does not cater to the gigantic population which is never static.Plus, whatever is made needs to be remade, whatever is built needs to be rebuilt every two months, every two years..Thanks to the Corrupt, Mendacious system and the sheer lack of Dignity of labour and the lack of Public sense of individuals.

A country aiming to be a Super Power primarily needs to get its priorities right.Nuclear weapons like Agni may be good for Defence but what about the people whom the country must needs Defend??Basic Food, Water, Clothing, Education and Health Facilities for one and all (people residing in cities,suburbs, villages and on plain land) along with good public services like Transport, Irrigation, Sanitation, Communication, Research etc. are extremely crucial for the proper and equal development of the nation.I just hope that we do not ignore the BASICS to achieve the COMPLEX!!

LIFE AND DEATH!!

EMPTINESS....

It all started with the sad demise of my very close friend's mother this month..I just could not take in the fact that a walking talking full of life person was no more a part of this life process..I could not console my friend..could not even hug her initially..i was bereft of words..tears spoke a lot but could not cry in front of her..went home..cried lots.. It haunted me, my sleep, my dreams turned into nightmares.. I saw her at the funeral..resting peacefully but with no sign of life..I heard the priests during the mass..could not control my tears.. Her house seemed so empty now.. It was a huge blow to me because i had interacted with auntie..and suddenly.....I pray that her soul rest in peace....AMEN!! That induced me to think about my behaviour with my own parents..How they have nurtured, cared and loved me..for so many years..How they complete me..They are my support systems..I think about how each and every room of this home lights up with their presence..how much i love them..how i sometimes quarrel too..and sometimes it gets out of hand but I still love them so so so very much..I wish i could hug them and say I LOVE YOU without any sort of hassles..I do that often now..which is Nice because now i Value LIFE EVEN MORE.... Losing them is something i cannot take in....It is my deepest fear..After all, I love them.... I cry thinking about that..I know Death is real..but i wish it gets Postponed.........and Postponed...........and Postponed!!!!




MY EXPERIENCE AT STERLING!

Another incident which made me value my parents and loved ones along with respecting life and discipline altogether was my tryst with Sterling Hospital on 17th March 2008.. On 16th March..I was suffering from hyperpyrexia..104 - 105 degrees and so..I thought i was dead..IT WAS THAT BAD!!My mamma thought so too..With extremely high fever and all its accompaniments...No strength..nothing..I WAS PRAYING!!That night was the longest night of my life..It was a Sunday..My mother kept me alive because of her care and determination till the time we reached the hospital on Monday.. With all our differences of opinions , it was then i realised that she TRULY CARED!!At Sterling..I was wheelchaired into the Emergency Ward ( I could not even Walk ) with 100's of tests to diagnose the root cause of my critical condition..And believe me, it was BAD!! I was shifted to the Special Ward>>Room - 308>>I remember!My veins were swollen with a thousand piercings from IV's which even makes getting a tattoo easier.So many saline, antibiotics and dextrose bottles of various shapes and sizes plus i would not initially react to the 15 medicines at morning, noon and night..I could not perform any bodily functions that we take for granted in our daily lives.That was when i realised the importance of the little things i took for granted..my hands, legs, time, my head and sleep which i always compromised on due to overwork..I could not use them..It HURT REAL BAD!! My mother doesn't keep well herself but she used to come for me..she fainted when she saw me getting 6 injections together..Even she was diagnosed with heart condition..I have lost count of the number of Injections and Medicines i took..Plus, my exams are in April..so it was and still is a really scary scenario.. I had a huge complaint list for my doctor..who is really nice..it was fun..main apni complaint list bachche ki tarah zid karke unko suna rahi thi and he was smiling like a father and changing medicines so that i dont have too much of discomfort....Next day he said.." Tujhe to bahut saari complaint hai..Ghar jaana hai..Aaj kal dekhte hain fir tujhe ghar bhejne ka sochunga??.."I was thrilled..Nice Doctor..Someone who is like God's messenger..He brought me back to life from a near death like situation.. I was dependant on my parents..my mom used to come for me without a second's rest..so did my dad..He cried for me..because there was no surety that i would live..My best friend Deepan came from Delhi to take care of me..Vishal and Palak gave their best wishes....My friend Nimisha used to call to check on my condition....




MY BIRTHDAY!!

I celebrated my second Birthday in the hospital..The first one when i was born and the second on on 21.03.2008....But it was a huge learning experience..with family, relatives, friends and blessings of all loved ones....calls, messages, visits....I loved every moment of it..Papa wished me that very night..my best friends called up..I love Dogs..my Mamma got me lots of cards and a stuffed puppy Dalmatian..D too got me cards and gifts..most of all..he came there for me..i just loved spending time with them..it was so special..he was there during my adversity..Thank You!!You are THE ONE JISKE LIYE YEH QUOTE BANA HAI - " A FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND INDEED "!! THANK YOU A LOT!!THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO WAS THERE BY ME, WHO PRAYED FOR ME..WHO THOUGHT FOR ME..Vishal said that "MAIN 25TH TAK KOODNE LAGOONGI!"..BLESS HIM.. I WAS DISCHARGED FROM THE HOSPITAL ON THE 24TH OF MARCH..STILL NOT WELL TOTALLY..HAVE TO GOBBLE WHATEVER MEDICINES THE DOC GIVES ME AND HAVE TO GO FOR FOLLOW UPS..BUT I'M ALIVE AND I HAVE FAITH..IT WILL BE FINE IF GOD OR DESTINY WILLS IT TO BE SO.... Now..as i grow a year older..I VALUE AND CHERISH LIFE..DISCIPLINE, TIME MANAGEMENT..EVERYTHING THAT I TOOK FOR GRANTED DUE TO OVERWORK AND MY SO CALLED PERFECTION..I VALUE LIFE MUCH MORE BECAUSE LIFE MATTERS..BECAUSE ONE PERSON CAN MAKE A HUGE DIFFERENCE!!!!

QUESTIONING AND CHALLENGING SOCIAL STEREOTYPES!!

It is an age old problem of superiority and inferiority that i am targeting at present..It is also about the problem of subjugation , oppression and gender stereotypes that I am looking at.

What triggered this notion of mine?This channel of thought?..

Well, March 8th was celebrated with great pomp and show as the WOMAN'S DAY!That made me think that is it fair to dedicate one day in the whole of 365 days to a woman when it is us who have placed her at a subordinate position in society since History..

I asked this friend of mine..why just one Day?He promptly replied..
"So that we can live in peace and can have the rest 364 Days dedicated to us."
Well..I realized that though it pricked me, it was the truth..this is how most people ( and not all ) function..this is how most societies all over the Globe function.

I mean honestly,
Women have been treated as objects since a long time..though some of them may have more brains than so many men put together..But, well, thats the way it is.Those who have not followed that norm have created history.But, honestly it is so rare that it hardly constitutes the mass.

Right from that chauvinistic saying : "Men for the heath, women for the hearth" to Sati, Johar, Purdah, Ghoonghat, Dowry, Keeping them at homes like pieces of furniture.Women have to move to the husband's home post marriage leaving aside everything that she was familiar with, change her surname..and well even after keeping the child in her womb for nine months..the child gets the father's surname.Isn't it ridiculous because ejaculation takes a minute and gestation takes 9 months and a child cant be born without both of these processes.

Plus, why should the woman leave her comfort zone and go somewhere else to not even be respected?

The Dowry system is something i do not understand at all.1st of all the woman has to give enormous dowry for her security in her "NEW HOME"..Its about reputation somehow.I mean somehow the man buys her and the family of the girl is dumb enough to sell her to a man who pretends to take care of the girl with the girls own wealth.Oh what a favour!I mean firstly, why go for a man who is so greedy, who is not self made, who takes away your security and then doesn't give you respect and pretends to do you a big favour by taking care of you from your assets.Why should a man who cannot take care of himself marry in the first place..just for the money?It is a shame that such incapacitated men are married too..these people who cannot do anything on their own and kind of beg from others.BEGGING and then becoming something of a MAFIA at home.I have seen educated girls from educated families fall prey to such a system wherein they are married to equally educated or less qualified men and they have to give them the dowry or GIFT just because they are MEN!!So what..big deal..they need women as much as women need men.But No, they wont listen and the story continues....But then after giving enormous amounts of money and GIFTS, does she find happiness and security?No!Its about greed for more, harassment, torture and married life never comes with guarantee.I have seen, read and heard about enough torture and dowry deaths to talk about this.If she invests so much in Banks, Shares, Mutual Funds etc..i bet the interest can guarantee her a life of happiness and respect without hassles..but that is not how the system operates.

I was wondering about who made such a weird system.Someone who is equally or more intelligent is also subordinated because she is a woman.Companies prefer males to females unless it is the service and hospitality industry.I mean even a Hillary Clinton might lose to Obama just because she is a woman..And America has a history of Male Domination..Even if she wins..It would not be much..Just 1 Woman president among so many male counterparts..What a Shame!And things are worse off in India.Look at the villages, suburbs and even the cities..

Look at the Rape Cases, molestation, Eve Teasing, the depiction of both the sexes in movies, in ads, books and well, practically everywhere and you know what i am talking about!Even the stories about knights and damsels in distress portray stereotypes.

Somehow going to war has been more heroic than cooking..Well, strange because no persons can wage wars and then have a heroic win unless they are supplied with food.Also the fact that every single task on this earth is complex if you want to achieve perfection..Perfectionists will agree!!

Then there is this notion that if a woman succeeds, its because she slept her way to the top or maybe that she is a masculine woman without any femininity - "The Boardroom Bitch".I'm sure a whole lot of males at the top are not addressed with such derogatory terms.. and if she has her feminine wiles, it is looked down upon as "OH SO GIRLY!!".

Women are generally considered dumb, emotional, bad drivers, meant for the kitchen and the bedroom and what not by both men and women.That is just SO SAD!Men are considered macho, logical, practical and people who handle finances..( WHICH IS EQUALLY SAD )..It is SAD when You are somewhat Different and that difference is not RESPECTED!!You end up being like mass produced factory goods..looking, thinking and acting the same way....I guess it all comes from CONDITIONING!!Books, movies, religious texts, family setup, society and peer pressure dominate our conditioning so much that anything out of the conventional setup is heavily criticized and finally ostracized from the society.




One of my friends - Janki Dave from Nirma Institute of Engineering emailed me the following :

" Chauvinism or Chivalry? "

" There is an agreed-upon list which I never compromise on. Even with strangers. It is a genetic thing, I think, for men to presume that their opinion/action has more formula weight than that of women. It is right there when they think they can lift that heavy box but I can't, that I am more prone to making a mistake while driving than they are, that they have to teach me HTML else I'll never learn, that it is simply not possible that I make more money than them.

90% of my friends will swear that they aren't so. They're just in denial. They'll come around. I might sound too critical and judgmental about it, maybe even to the point of generalizing things. But it is true. I am yet to meet a man who doesn't have that chauvinistic streak.

But on second thoughts, even the female species have an agreed -upon list which I never compromise on. Like, women can shop better than their male counterparts, or they can cook better, and the list continues... People around me say , its plain simple " Genetic Engineering" which somehow doesn't get into my head for such stupid acts!!!"

My reply to her was :

" Okay..now one thing is that : men are physically stronger than women..their bones are stronger..it is in the anatomy.. Take an Xray of your bone (the femur) or anything of an adult healthy male and female and there is that difference..U will see it..so maybe u can lift a box while a single guy your age can lift a truck with his nail..saw that on t.v..haven't seen a woman do that yet..BUT THAT DOES NOT GIVE ANYONE THE LIBERTY TO ILL TREAT THE OTHER.HUMAN BEINGS HAVE A FUNCTIONAL BRAIN TO THINK AND BASIC ANATOMICAL DIFFERENCE IS NO EXCUSE FOR CHAUVINISM, HARASSMENT , SUBJUGATION OR THE VIOLATION OF HUMAN RIGHTS!

Apart from the anatomy, i see no basic difference..

The rest of it is plain and simple practice.. A Sanjeev Kapoor and A Tarala dalal can cook really well because of practice, inclination etc.. Being a woman, I cannot because I'm least interested and therefore don't practice.

Chivalry and Chauvinism are different things..when you want do it yourself with the intention of looking at the other person's comfort - its Chivalry but if you say that you don't know this and therefore I'll do this for you..then a sense of ego and pride creeps in and that is Chauvinism..Chauvinism is demeaning and Chivalry has to do with the feeling of courage with the intention of pure caring.

As far as drivers are concerned..men and women in India are both horrendous drivers..Most of them follow no traffic rules, no speed regulations..some drive like turtles and the rest think that there is no tomorrow..plus they litter..not to forget..drive drunk, talk on cell phones, wear no helmets or seat belts, are careless while driving..both men and women..That accounts for so many accidents..its horrifying. That is irrespective of the sex.

About HTML and earning money..well..that has somewhat to do with people's egos.. Working outside of home and the financial department was always believed to be a man's terrain ever since our ancient religious texts were written..but after the 2nd world war things have started shaping up differently..but when people grow up thinking - Women cant earn..they don't have brains..they are just meant for the bedroom and the kitchen, even if a lot of women dont follow that norm..men tend to generalise... So do women because accessorizing and cooking was primarily their domain.

But people should learn to open their minds..there is Indra Nooyi and there is Sanjeev Kapoor..in the same dear world that we live in.... PEOPLE MUST QUIT GENERALISING AND IF THEY WANT TO DEFY STEREOTYPES..THEY MUST START PRACTICING AND THEN A GUY CAN BE AS GREAT A COOK OR A DESIGNER AS A GAL CAN BE AN INVESTMENT BANKER AND A NUCLEAR PHYSICIST."

THIS IS NO FEMINIST MALE BASHING WRITEUP..Women do not suffer from penis envy..their problem is with the fact that they are not respected for what they are..who they are.

People can be exceptionally good at so many things..both men and women..but so many of them are written off because of nothing but their sex.

I mean who the hell even wants Equality..What EVERYONE NEEDS..RIGHT FROM AN AMOEBA TO THE HUMAN SPECIES IS RESPECT..AND I THINK THAT REALLY IS FAIR ENOUGH!!

KUKU'S VERSION OF THOSE WERE THE DAYS (1968) BY MARY HOPKIN

I AM NOT A GREAT SINGER AND THIS IS MY FIRST ATTEMPT TO CREATE A VIDEO..AND WHAT CAN BETTER THAN CAPTURING ONE OF MY ALL TIME FAVOURITE SONGS ON MY VERY FIRST MUSIC VIDEO.

THOSE WERE THE DAYS (1968 ) BY MARY HOPKIN HAD TO BE IT..I JUST LOVE THE SONG..IT IS TIMELESS....

The Person behind the BLOG!!!!

Moi standing tall....
High heels and all....

The Creative Mind during LEISURE hours....

BAND OF BLOGGERS BY ANISHA MEHTA - Publication :Times Of India Ahmedabad; Date: Nov 17, 2007!!

I AM ACTUALLY PUBLISHING ANISHA MEHTA'S ARTICLE IN TOI ON MY BLOG>>>>HERE GOES....

Publication: Times Of India Ahmedabad;	Date: Nov 17, 2007;	Section: Times City;	Page: 4

Band of bloggers

Anisha Mehta reports on what youngsters from Ahmedabad are blogging about....

When Kuheli Roy posted an article on reservation on her blog, it inspired her friends across cities like Delhi and Mumbai to participate in anti-reservation protests. It also lead to them participating in a candlelight march in Ahmedabad last year. “I sent a link of my article on reservation to all my friends in different cities. They were motivated to be a part of these protests.”
The Indian Blogosphere is inundated with techies from Bangalore and Hyderabad, talking mostly about the digital world. But there is a select band of bloggers from Ahmedabad who are doing what made blogging an international phenomenon - using it as a free-for-all diary, but also motivating to get more socially conscious.
Nitesh Jain’s blog, on the other hand, has sensitised people towards social causes. “My blog has inspired friends and colleagues to join NGOs like Yuva’ and Dhirshti. Nitesh’s blog, ‘Walking towards reality’ links videos along with regular posts on issues from flood relief to peace marches. “People talk about problems but never make an effort to solve them. Through this blog, I am taking an initiative to bring a small change in the society. My friends volunteered to work for Seva Cafe after I posted an article about it on my blog.”
Lending their contribution towards the society are also youngsters like,25-year-old Tapan Shah, a software engineer who blogs his political views to generate discussion and debates. “My article on ‘Adnan, Orkut and Media’ was chosen to be a part of various other blogging sites.It made people realise that it is not just the internet that should be regulated but other media as well, especially after Adnan Patrawala’s murder.”
Descriptive about his thoughts on female foeticide in India, latest gadgets in technology, he also likes to review movies from India and Pakistan.
Opining on life, Hemal Mehta, a third year student from H L BBA adds, “Relationships,friends or exams,all these are an integral elements in any students life and my blog.” Expressing her reasons to blog she says,“If my friends can find a reason to smile and be happy after reading my blog, it is simply worth it!”
Akash Bhavsar’s blog displays photographs showcasing the skyline, in and around Ahmedabad.

THE LINK TO THE GIVEN ARTICLE IS AS FOLLOWS:

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Honestly, this is Super Encouraging for bloggers like me.It helps me channelize my thoughts and find more creative avenues for self expression....It increases my awareness to myself as well as the visible and invisible reality.Hope the creative spark in me motivates me to do more of Blogging....
Amen!!!!

THE ARTICLE ON MY BLOG IN TheTimes Of India - 17.11.2007 !!

Times Of India ePaper

Wow....this is exciting.... The article in THE TIMES OF INDIA ON THE BAND OF BLOGGERS IN AHMEDABAD on Saturday, November 17, 2007 by Anisha Mehta featured my blog too.Here is a copy of the article from Page 4 of TOI, Ahmedabad edition that featured my blog.IT SURELY IS ENCOURAGING AND MOTIVATES ME TO DO MORE OF BLOGGING AND SELF EXPRESSION!!Thank You Anisha....

Click on the link below for a copy of that article:

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ABOUT MY BLOG....ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS....

"BLOGGING SEEMS INTERESTING AND SINCE I AM USED TO WRITING DIARIES, I AM TRYING OUT MORE INNOVATIVE METHODS OF SELF PORTRAITURE.Blogging for me is a digital expression of myself.With the advent of technology, ideas are not only confined to one's personal diary and by blogging i can give vent to my emotions as well as reach out to different people who are poetry lovers."

The main reason why i write poems about love and hope in my blog is because with the amount of hatred and viciousness in the world....There is a need for love and hope.Poetry surely comes from the heart for me and my thoughts create my poems based on those feelings.

The most number of responses that i get are for my love poems and these are very encouraging.All the comments are very encouraging.Some of the replies are a response to my poem, a continuation or an answer to that thought.Some of my friends have started trying blogging and writing poems after reading my blog posts.Its on a small scale, yes, but its good to know that its making a difference>>small..surely but its there.This wasnt possible earlier as people didnt have access to my poems..whereas now more and more people are trying out blogging and hence accessibility is not much of an issue.

I do write on hope, success and failures too as these are the eternal truths and tests that life has to offer to all of us.

Some of my blog posts are memoirs....bitter-sweet moments and a comment on that.I also write on topics that trigger my interest or affect me directly at that point in time.My blog post on reservation did come during the protests in Mumbai in which my friends from IIT participated and when some of my friends read the blog, they passed on the thread and it kind of helped in awareness during the candlelight march in May or June 2006>>not sure of which of the two months.Well, its not that this was the only reason for the march as i'm not really a social activist..but i am an opinionated Literature student..but it helped the cause..in some way by giving "SOME PEOPLE" the "SPARK".

My favourites are all my poems as they are an extension to the self.Cant say which one.For me..each and every post is special in its own way....

WISHING MYSELF A VERY HAPPY BLOGGING!!!!AND ALL MY READERS A VERY HAPPY READING AS WELL....

CARPE DIEGM.... SIEZE THE DAY!!!! CHEER ON!!!!

YEARS MAY COME, YEARS MAY GO - IRISH ROVERS

IRISH ROVERS lyrics

This song was introduced to me by Bhupendra Sir and from that day onwards i cannot stop singing it.Its one of my personal favourites because of its extremely meaningful lyrics.

THE SECRET LOVE OF THE PRINCE AND THE MERMAID

HER PRINCE WONDERS....


We two talked of love, the world and much more
Together we sat on the sands salty ocean seashore
I felt an urge drive me, to ask her for her name
Yet my words were ever held back time, time again

A magical thing she was, much beauty one of awe
Her myth and magic radiates appeal and much more
Legends are made from her being, songs and words
She′s rarely seen but to the oceans fish or it′s birds

Sitting there, aside of me, we were chatting about life
A desire longing to ask her, if she′d be my Wife
Appeal and desire to have her, grew incredibly strong
Sensing she′d make me happy, my entire life along

I gave her a locket..of the finest silver fair..
An intimate promise from my weary soul
She stared at me with blue eyed wonder
then lost herself in the blues

Waves beat the shore, mesmerised adrift in her potion
Her love and serene beauty were in tune with the ocean
I reached for her hand, yet she slipped into the sea
Leaving me there alone, waving her goodbye to me

Emotions crammed in, relaying we two were made
But I couldn′t have this oceans beautiful mermaid
This was but a dream, the stuff of legends you see
Alone in my fantasy, without my mermaid I′ll be

HIS MERMAID PONDERS....

I float beneath the surface
without need of harsh air
sun-flecks flutter downwards, lost in blue
I breathe the water: oxygen reddens my blood
redder than coral

shoals of fish dart and twist in bright chorus
slow creatures nestle and forage among
dark boulders where weeds
fan out like flukes
waving softly as
my hair

I pause
feel the silver locket
bump gently at my breast
dive back, head over tail like the dolphins....

Stick Wit You - Aladdin

IT IS ONE VIDEO THAT DEFIES THE NOTION THAT THERE CANNOT BE ANY HAPPY ENDINGS..THIS ONE IS FOR HOPE....DEDICATED TO MY BEST PAL.

STICK WIT YOU - lyrics.

Oohooh ooh oohooh ooh... 

C'mon!

I don't wanna go another day 

So I'm telling you, exactly what is on my mind 

Seems like everybody is breaking up 

And throwing their love away 

But I know I got a good thing right here 

That's why I say (Hey) 

Nobody gonna love me better, I must stick wit u forever

Nobody gonna take me higher, I must stick wit u

You know how to appreciate me, I must stick wit u, my baby

Nobody ever made me feel this way, I must stick wit u 

I don't wanna go another day 

So I'm telling you, exactly what is on my mind 

See the way we ride, in our private lives 

Ain't nobody gettin' in between 

I want you to know that, you're the only one for me (one for me)

(When I say)

Nobody gonna love me better, I must stick wit u forever

Nobody gonna take me higher, I must stick wit u (nobody)

You know how to appreciate me, I must stick wit u, my baby

Nobody ever made me feel this way, I must stick wit u

And now, ain't nothing else I could need 

And now, I'm singing 'cause you're so, so into me 

I got you, we'll be making love endlessly 

I'm with you (baby I'm with you)

Baby you're with me (baby you're with me, higher)

So don't cha worry about 

People hanging around 

They ain't bringing us down 

I know you, and you know me 

And that's all that counts (hey)

So don't cha worry about 

People hanging around 

They ain't bringing us down 

I know you, and you know me 

And that's, that's why I say (Hey)

Nobody gonna love me better, I must stick wit u forever

Nobody gonna take me higher, I must stick wit u (come on)

You know how to appreciate me, I must stick wit u, my baby

Nobody ever made me feel this way, I must stick wit u

Nobody gonna love me better, I must stick wit u forever

Nobody gonna take me higher, I must stick wit u

You know how to appreciate me, I must stick wit u, my baby

Nobody ever made me feel this way, I must stick wit u....

YOU ARE THE ONE!!!!

The very first time I saw you,
It was special how we met.
You took me by complete surprise.
I knew my heart was set.

As days flew by, we talked again,
But you never seemed to care.
I tried my best to help you out,
By a favour here or there.

Although I made a fast approach,
Our friendship sprung and grew.
I realized how deep I cared,
But the feeling I felt was new.

In time I became attached to you.
From a hug, I wouldn't let go.
I soon saw how close we were,
And the feeling was good to know.

For you, I wrote sweet letters and songs.
You were on my mind all day.
The thought of sleeping was nowhere near,
Unless I knew you were okay.

It hit me then, what I was in -
A unique and precious love.
For the person I said was only mine,
Was an angel sent from above.

The minutes without you turned into days,
And the seconds with you flew fast.
I could only wish to see you more,
And make each moment last.

The times I spent with you,
Were what made my heart complete.
I knew one thing for sure,
Without you, my future was obsolete.

And now, we love just the same,
As it doubles day by day.
I stare deep into your precious eyes,
Yet I'm still speechless to what I should say.

With you, I'm in a whole new world.
You bring out the best in me.
It's hard to picture you not there,
When you taught me who to be.

Yes, the road ahead gets hard,
When things may only seem rough.
But because you and I try so much,
We'll stay strong and get by tough.

Though problems may lie ahead someday,
And either of us could be right;
I promise to always be by your side,
And I promise my heart, so hold it tight.

And so, each night, beside my bed,
When there are bright stars in the sky;
I pray that we may never give up,
And always remain YOU and I.

SILENT LOVE

Silently,

He smiles to himself,
As he thinks of her,
Sitting alone in her kitchen,
Sipping coffee.
She thinks of him too,
But little does he know it.
Shamefully,
Both pass each other every day,
Without passing on the knowledge,
Of their inwardly turned love.
Time and time again it happens,
For who has the courage to say it first,
Or do they just enjoy,
Their secret love affair.

THOSE WERE THE DAYS - MARY HOPKINS

MARY HOPKIN lyrics

Bhupendra Sir introduced me to this beautiful song and it has captivated my senses ever since..It is one of my favourite songs that will stay close to my heart forever.

ORKUT BUGS..

I cant stop saying enough of this; why waste something that has so much potential? I am referring to the social networking website affiliated to Google - Orkut. Recently i mentioned that some visible changes were seen on Orkut, well some of them were better but it has also resulted in a few bugs. They have used more of AJAX and improved the server so you don't see the “No Donut for you” message anymore.As if we were craving for donuts while surfing. But a lot of other bugs have popped up.

For instance, the Messaging System, which was never up to the mark, has now degraded further. Multiple messages cannot me either marked read or deleted. Now for people like me who just cannot tolerate crap..it is a real waste of time to keep selecting individual messages and deleting them..Why cant there be a provision for deleting all the messages in one's inbox??..And once you click on a message to read it, it automatically does not get marked as read. So every time you have to manually select read messages and mark them as read. The main page has been shrunk and the link displaying number of scraps has been pushed up in the top line.

The scrapping system has always been complicated to users. Most of them don't know how to scrap others. Once you receive a scrap from someone, you have to first visit his profile , click on Scraps and then scrap him. Well with the new "REPLY" system of course..things get easier but still messenger rocks in terms of chatting or communication.The use of AJAX can be well implemented here and an easier way to scrap the sender should be employed. New scraps can only be viewed on refreshing the browser. Real time updating of scraps would be really awesome and would give it an edge over every other contemporary website of its kind.

Another bug noticed by my friend is the empty professional tab under the users profile. If you don't fill up the details in the Professional area, and just enter stuff in the Personal tab, the tab does appear but has no content except for testimonials.After the recent update(if you call it so .. ) scraps can also not be edited. So you either delete the whole thing and type it again or just let it be. I sincerely hope that the Guys from Google read this and improve upon Orkut.

THE KING OF GRASS VS THE KING OF CLAY - WIMBLEDON 2007..It's an ace for tennis as class wins out!!!!

Wow.......

Thats how I can describe the match between Roger Federer - The King of Grass and Rafael Nadal - The King of Clay at CENTRE COURT today..It was the most amazingly spectacular match bringing out the best of the game..

It is well said that "great rivalries produce great tennis"..but it was much more than just a game today.It was a battle of nerves and determination..The eternal fight between the warrior and the artist.Rafael Nadal of course was the best rival and the standard of tennis reaches to its zenith when the World No.1 and No. 2 are both so good that one cannot predict till the very end who will win....

I was applauding the performance of both players..but being a loyal fan of Federer's artistic touches with the court as his canvas and his tennis racket as the brush..I was praying for him..and indeed being several break points down in the decider..5th set..He broke Nadal finally and then won the match by breaking Nadal again on Nadal's serve....With Borg watching from the front row of the Royal Box on only his second visit since his last appearance on Centre Court in 1981, Federer beat Rafael Nadal 7-6, 4-6, 7-6, 2-6, 6-2 after three and three-quarter hours of glorious tennis.

It was a great moment to see at the centre court wherein Federer matched the record of Bjorn Borg..who had come to see the match..and Federer in his speech was as awed by the moment as any of the spectators.

Whats really fascinating is the amount of pressure these people play under when such things make me so very nervous..and still have their nerves and determination intact..Its really really inspiring..The success stories of Pete Sampras - The God of Tennis, Roger Federer -The touch artist and Five time Consecutive Wimbledon Champion, Rafael Nadal who has improved sooooooo much and is giving a tough challenge to Federer on his favourite surface, Venus Williams who emerged as a WINNER after so many years when it was least expected....are so awe inspiring....they GIVE ME LOTS AND LOTS OF COURAGE AND DETERMINATION AND THEIR ENORMOUS HARDWORK AND GRIT GIVES ME THE NEVER SAY DIE ATTITUDE....THATS A LOT OF INSPIRATION....!!!!

CHEERS TO SHEER EXCELLENCE !!!!

THE GIFT OF MYSELF

I don't have much to give you

in the way of material things.

But then,

I have never been a material person ....

so it wouldn't matter much anyway.

I do have something to give you, though . . . .

and I hope you accept this gift with joy.

I have chosen not to wrap it . . . .

I want it to be presented to you

as pristine as can be.

And anyway, decorations or wrappings

would certainly ruin the effect.

And so it is . . . . that I stand before you . . . .

unclothed, but surprisingly, unashamed of my nakedness.

You have already captured a piece of my heart,

and you have captivated my soul.

The only thing left for me to present to you

is my very being . . . .

and I do that willingly,happily, and most of all . . . .lovingly.

Standing before you . . . .

watching your every movement . . . .

seeing the desire in your eyes

for the very first time.

I don't believe in all of my life,

I have ever witnessed a moment

as beautiful as this.

Neither one of us can speak . . . .

and we are finding, even breathing, is difficult.

Your heartbeat is pounding out a rhythm

that almost assaults my ears.

I can hear it from where I stand across from you . . . .

and every beat speaks of your love for me.

I am giving you this gift tonight,

because I desperately want you to look inside.

I want you to open this package

that I offer you,slowly . . . .lovingly . . . . sensuously . . . .

and search for what lies within.

You don't have to look far,

you know . . .everything I feel for you

is just below the surface.

So it shouldn't take long for you

to discover the beauty awaiting you there.

Go ahead . . . open this gift

as a child would

on a snowy Christmas morning . . . .

in a hurried fashion . . . rather like a frenzy,

if you will.

But once that initial gift is opened . . . .

and the passion subsides . . . .

Please promise me

that this gift I give you . . . .

this gift of myself . . . .is only just the beginning. . . .